{"id":6131,"date":"2019-03-16T11:46:02","date_gmt":"2019-03-16T15:46:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ashleycaron.com\/personal-development\/?p=6131"},"modified":"2019-03-16T11:46:02","modified_gmt":"2019-03-16T15:46:02","slug":"process-to-discover-your-true-purpose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ashleycaron.com\/personal-development\/process-to-discover-your-true-purpose\/","title":{"rendered":"A Step by Step Process to Discover Your True Purpose"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"6131\" class=\"elementor elementor-6131\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5ef1b61 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5ef1b61\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3ec8ba6\" data-id=\"3ec8ba6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e9ab21c elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"e9ab21c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e6e073 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3e6e073\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>For as long as I can remember I&#8217;ve had a background sense of <b>uneasiness<\/b> in my life.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6bfe788 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6bfe788\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It&#8217;s an&nbsp;<span style=\"font-weight: 700;\">unnamable frustration<\/span>&nbsp;that came from knowing I wasn\u2019t doing all I could with my life.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Regardless of changes I\u2019ve made in my career, friends, relationship and even location there was always this infuriating restlessness that told me I had&nbsp;<span style=\"font-weight: 700;\">more to do<\/span>&nbsp;with my life\u2026&nbsp;<span style=\"font-weight: 700;\">more to be<\/span>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ab0868 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5ab0868\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you&#8217;ve ever felt like this, <b>you&#8217;re not alone.<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-909ce45 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"909ce45\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">More people than ever are searching for\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">meaning<\/span>\u00a0and\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">purpose<\/span>\u00a0in their lives.\u00a0<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">So much so that it\u2019s actually being researched.\u00a0<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">One of the findings of the research\u00a0<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>(link\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2015\/12\/151203112844.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>) shows that a lack of purpose can be\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">detrimental<\/span>\u00a0to our health. And people who report having a sense of purpose in life are shown to have\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">lower risks of mortality<\/span>\u00a0and\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">heart disease<\/span>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-37e1fb4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"37e1fb4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>A sense of purpose is clearly very important to living a <b>good life<\/b>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a29da5b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a29da5b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">It makes sense that so many of us are\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">searching<\/span>\u00a0for it.<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">If you\u2019re someone like me who\u2019s still\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">full of questions<\/span>\u00a0about your purpose in life I may have something that can help.<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">It\u2019s\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">a framework<\/span>\u00a0I happened upon during one of my many internet adventures. It helped me find some\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">answers<\/span>\u00a0to the frustration and uncertainty in my life.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3309722 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3309722\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It&#8217;s a Japanese concept called <b>Ikigai.<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-709d372 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"709d372\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInRight&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ashleycaron.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/elementor\/thumbs\/ashleycaron_ikigai-p4zuo2lv0aoh616jjmi123kac81hqfl8k7fl5h1z74.png\" title=\"ashleycaron_ikigai\" alt=\"ashleycaron_ikigai\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-27d189d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"27d189d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">Ikigai roughly translates into \u201c<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">reason for being.<\/span>\u201d<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">When I went through this process for myself, I realized that it provided the\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">perfect blend\u00a0<\/span>of our\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">spiritual<\/span>\u00a0longings with the\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">practical<\/span>\u00a0realties of the world.\u00a0<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">It was through this framework that I realized my purpose. My reason for being is to use my\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">talents<\/span>\u00a0and\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">strengths<\/span>\u00a0to serve the expression of\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">feminine power<\/span>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">My Ikigai is to<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">\u00a0provide tools, insights and resources for women to grow and thrive<\/span>. It\u2019s rooted in my belief that the insights, experiences and talents of women and girls are essential to creating a thriving future.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e38e97 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1e38e97\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you&#8217;d like more help to get clarity on your purpose (including prompts and examples) then <b>download<\/b> your <b>free guide<\/b> below.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-866ea49 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"866ea49\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">But it\u2019s important to acknowledge\u00a0 that this isn\u2019t some quick and easy solution to all our problems. It requires\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">time<\/span>\u00a0and\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">introspection<\/span>.<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">You don\u2019t have to force yourself to answer all the questions now. Just having\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">an awareness<\/span>\u00a0of the right questions can help us to be open to<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">\u00a0insights<\/span>\u00a0and\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">ideas\u00a0<\/span>that would probably otherwise not come into our life.\u00a0<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">My Ikigai, my purpose, has become\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">the north star\u00a0<\/span>of my life<span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">\u00a0guiding me<\/span>\u00a0through the ups and downs of every day life.\u00a0<\/p><p style=\"font-size: 18px;\">It doesn\u2019t guarantee a perfect life (nothing does). 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